and I really don't want to offend anyone and I don't want to be a triggery to anyone. If you are in a bad TTC frame of mind right now, or feeling pretty hopeless, you may not want to read further.
I have several friends on here that don't have a child yet. They are struggling with IF and the hurt that it causes everyday. One of the things that causes hurt or trigger pain is the celebration of Mother's Day. I understand the pain that it could cause. I am very fortunate not to feel the whole affect, but I understand. I want my friends who are not mothers yet know that I love you and I'm thinking of you. And to me.....
You ARE a mother! This day is just as much about you as it is me. You may not have physical children but you are more of a mother than many that I know. You were born with motherly instinct and you are a mother. I love you dearly and so will many heaven children if you don't happen to have them here on this earth. I believe that even if you aren't a mother yet and may not be on this earth, you will prevail in Heaven. To me a mother isn't just any woman who has a child, it is a state of mind. It is a woman with a loving, kind, caring soul that helps others by teaching them and being there...guess what, That is you!
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That was very nice =). You're right.. popping out a kid doesn't make you a mother, so many of the IF girls we know are more mothers than many out there. Happy Mothers Day to you girl... I hope it is a good one!
Thank you for that, Tanya! You made me a little teary. I hope you have a wonderful Mothers Day. (((Hugs)))
I want to say you are right, and I've been struggling mentally on how to construct a post just as you have done here. Thank you.
What a beautiful post and thank you for remembering us in that way.
(((HUGS)))
Thank you very much. I needed that. You're a dear friend and I am glad you don't have to celebrate MD from this side.
Very beautifully put.... (((HUGS)))
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